
As we embrace the seasons changing and the holidays swiftly approaching, we often find ourselves caught in a whirlwind of activities, tasks, and endless to-do lists. During this magical yet chaotic time, the words from Matthew 11:28, "Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest," echo in my mind like a gentle invitation. It's a reminder that rest is not only a necessity but also a gift we're allowed to embrace.
The holiday season, with its charm and sweetness, can easily swing us into a frenzy. Between planning dinners, buying gifts, decorating, and trying to create memorable experiences, it feels like we're channeling Santa's energy - and that's a tall order! In such times, it's crucial to remember to fill our own cups first. Without attending to our needs, we can't truly light up the holidays for those we love.
The hustle and bustle are inevitable, but stress doesn't have to be the Grinch that steals your joy. To keep ourselves grounded amid the chaos, we can adopt a simple yet powerful mantra: "Inhale peace, exhale stress." Repeat it throughout the day, allowing it to center your heart and mind, even if only for a moment. Each breath in washes over you with a sense of calm, and each breath out releases the tension binding you.
Moreover, why not infuse this practice with nature's purest gifts? Incorporating Young Living essential oils like Lavender or Stress Away can enhance your moments of tranquility. Diffuse them while you recite your mantra, and let their soothing aromas wrap you in serenity. This micro-moment of intentional self-care not only relaxes you but recharges your spirit to spread love and warmth more openly.
During this tender season, let's be kind to ourselves. Give yourself permission to step back and rest. Remember, taking care of your well-being is the greatest offering you can bring to your table. When you're fulfilled, you're capable of generously giving from a place of abundance - be it love, time, or joy.
As you move through bustling streets and lively gatherings, remember to pause and breathe. Let the words of Matthew guide you to balance and rest. Make it a merry season not just for those around you but for yourself as well.
Wishing you peace, joy, and the rejuvenation your soul longs for this holiday season! 🎄✨

In today's fast-paced world, our relationships often become a bustling metropolis of thoughts, feelings, and opinions. And let's be honest – conflict is inevitable. Sometimes it’s just a minor bump in the road, while other times it can feel like a full-blown battle. But remember this: “Every kingdom divided against itself becomes a desert.” To keep our relationships from drying out and becoming barren, we need to practice TLC: Talking, Listening, and Caring.
Talk: Own Your Behavior
When conflict arises, it’s essential to take a step back and own your behavior. Reflect on your actions, words, and role in the conflict. Instead of pointing fingers and escalating the situation into an all-out revolution, explain your perspective calmly and respectfully.
Start with “I” statements rather than “You” accusations. For example, “I feel hurt when…” instead of “You always make me feel…”. This subtle shift can make a significant difference, turning a potential argument into a constructive conversation.
Listen: Truly Hear What the Other Person is Saying
One of the most vital aspects of TLC is listening. It’s not just about hearing words; it’s about understanding the meaning behind them. When the other person is speaking, give them your undivided attention. Avoid interrupting and truly focus on what they are saying.
Listening is a powerful act of love and respect. It shows the other person that their feelings and opinions are valued and heard. By truly listening, we pave the path towards resolution rather than conflict.
Care: Work Towards Resolution
Without caring, talking and listening might not lead to the desired outcome. Caring means genuinely wanting to resolve the conflict and find common ground. It’s about prioritizing the relationship over the need to be “right.”
Show empathy and compassion. Acknowledge the other person’s feelings and work together to find a solution that benefits both parties. Avoid turning the discussion into a power struggle. Remember, the goal is resolution, not revolution.
Using Essential Oils to Enhance TLC
As an Aroma Freedom Practitioner, I have discovered the incredible benefits of essential oils in fostering a calm and harmonious environment – perfect for practicing TLC. Here’s how it works.
The Aroma Freedom Technique uses essential oils and your own thoughts and memories to change the way you think about yourself and the world around you. It can break down the internal turmoil that hinders the connection between you and the resolution.
Relationships thrive when nurtured with TLC: Talking, Listening, and Caring. By owning our behavior, truly listening, and working towards resolution, we can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. Remember, a kingdom united in harmony flourishes, while a divided one becomes a desert. Let’s choose unity and cultivate a loving, supportive environment in our relationships.
Imagine a world where every conflict is met with calm discussions, where everyone feels heard, and where caring leads to collective growth. Let’s take the first step together – one drop of essential oil and one mindful conversation at a time. Contact me to learn more about how to make your world more harmonious.

In a galaxy where darkness meets light, a compelling method known as the Aroma Freedom Technique offers a unique path to liberation. This technique, developed by Dr. Benjamin Perkus, leverages the profound connection between scent, memory, and emotion to help individuals break free from the shackles of their past. By using the purest essential oils, individuals are guided through specific steps designed to help them focus on the present and envision a future unburdened by fear.
The power of the Aroma Freedom Technique has led to remarkable transformations, akin to the cosmic tales of rebels and merchants finding their way out of darkness. One story recounts a Rebel fighter, burdened by past defeats, who, through the technique and the essence of resilient plants, emerged with a spirit unbroken and eyes full of purpose. Another tale speaks of a merchant, overwhelmed by debts, who found clarity and abundance by embracing this method, illustrating the technique's ability to ignite significant positive change in people's lives.
As a beacon in the vast expanse of the galaxy, the Aroma Freedom Technique stands as a testament to the strength of the human spirit to overcome obstacles and reclaim control over one's destiny. It serves as a powerful tool for those courageous enough to confront their shadows and fears, promising a future shaped by their own desires. With essential oils as steadfast companions, this technique offers a path to boundless potential, encouraging all to take the first step towards a future filled with freedom and endless possibilities.

Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night, the mind racing with questions about your true purpose? The alarm clock announces a new dawn, but to you, it feels like another day navigating through fog without a clear direction. We've all been there at some point, caught in the whirlwind of daily routines, responsibilities, and societal expectations, feeling tired and stressed because we lack a sense of purpose.
But what if the key to unlocking your purpose is simply learning to "be"? It might sound counterintuitive in our constantly moving world, but sometimes, to move forward, we need to pause and clear out all the mental clutter that's weighing us down.
The journey to discover your purpose is deeply personal and requires peeling back layers of stress, expectations, and self-doubt. Here are some methods to help you along this path:
Reiki, a Japanese energy healing technique, can help you achieve a state of relaxation and healing, facilitating the release of energy blockages. By balancing your chakras (energy centers), Reiki soothes your nervous system and fosters an environment within yourself to ponder upon and realize your true calling with clarity and peace.
Scent has a powerful connection to our memories, emotions, and sense of well-being. The Aroma Freedom Technique is a unique way of using essential oils to trigger a positive emotional response, helping to clear negative thoughts, feelings, and memories that might be hindering your ability to see your purpose. This practice encourages you to identify your dreams and supports you in moving towards them without the baggage of past emotional clutter.
Visualization is a potent tool. It involves picturing your ideal life in your mind’s eye, concentrating on the details, and holding onto that vision. Knowing where you want to be provides a compass for your actions and decisions, steering you closer to your purpose with every step taken in alignment with your vision.
Sometimes, the hardest thing to do is to just "be". In stillness, we find clarity. Allow yourself moments of quiet, away from the noise of the world, to connect with your inner self. This connection is where you'll find the seeds of your purpose waiting to sprout.
Ready to embark on a transformative journey to clarity and purpose? We invite you to join us at the **Live Differently Retreat** this May. Nestled in the serene Pocono mountains of Pennsylvania, this retreat is designed to provide you with the space, tools, and community to explore your inner world, clear the mental clutter, and embrace the art of just "being". Through workshops, Reiki meditations, Aroma Freedom Technique, and mindful practices, you'll embark on a journey to discover your purpose and how you can live differently to embrace it fully.
Your purpose is a journey, not a destination. It's about discovering who you are beyond the roles and expectations, and how you choose to make your mark on the world. So, if you're tired of feeling lost, come find yourself with us. Stamp your calendar, and let's embark on this beautiful journey together.
Let’s start clearing the path to your purpose, one breath, one drop, one moment of stillness at a time. See you at the retreat!

Discover the transformative power of essential oils with the Aroma Freedom Technique (AFT). Young Living's pure and potent essential oils are perfect for tapping into the incredible ability of scent to impact our emotions and thoughts. Developed by psychologist Dr. Benjamin Perkus, AFT combines the power of Young Living essential oils with intentional actions to help rewire the brain for positive results.
Through the use of specific aromas and targeted actions, AFT helps identify and release emotional blocks that may be holding you back. Experience emotional freedom, empowerment, goal achievement, and increased self-awareness through this powerful practice. Our certified AFT practitioner is ready to guide you on your journey towards self-discovery and transformation. Say goodbye to emotional roadblocks and hello to a more balanced and fulfilling life. Book your Aroma Freedom session today and start rewiring your brain for a brighter future with Young Living essential oils. You've got this!






